Why Jealousy in Blogging Could Destroy a Blogger's Career?

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Perhaps, this is not the most anticipated topic this time of year, but after the recent conflicts that I have seen has made me think that jealousy and envy might turn out to be a silent devil for the Blogging community. There are two kinds of Bloggers, one who are Professional, second who are Beginners (The one who has just landed in the Blogosphere). I am sure that I am not the only one who has felt the pride and jealousy because it is a common nature of human beings. There is no doubt that selfishness might turn a PRO Blogger into a Selfish person, but Jealousy is something that literally brutalizes a career of a webmaster. Therefore, today in this article, we will be discussing that Why Jealousy Could Destroy a Blogger's Career.

Let’s start off with by revising the real meaning of Jealousy:

• Jealousy:  It is a part of human emotions that typically refer to the negative feelings, fears, nervousness over an anticipated loss of something, and uncertainties that particularly refer to a Human connection.  Jealousy usually consists of negative emotions such as, anger, bitterness, inadequacy, feebleness and hatred. 

To be honest, every single person whether he is a Blogger or a business man has a slight corner in his heart where Jealousy remains alive. It horrible to get jealousy from others success, but it is a bitter truth that should be accepted by each and every one. Consider the Following Quotation that would enlighten your thoughts about Jealousy.

The above quotation has cleared all the misconception that we had in our minds because, jealousy could not bring happiness instead it would bury a person into the dirt. Wasting time by getting jealous of another is not among the etiquette of a decent person because sometimes we are ahead, sometime we are behind.

How a Blogger Should Control Jealous Feelings: 

Now Let’s Talk.  How and what we can do to get rid of these feelings. I Think the Above quotation from SYED has given the accurate answer in just few words. So here are the few things that might help in uprooting the tree of Jealousy.  

Stop Comparing Yourself With Others: We always compare our websites with other. The moment we compare them, our feelings gets out of control and thus, we started to feel feebleness. In spite of comparing your site with other PRO Blogs, we should carry on with the abilities we have. More importantly, make use of the skills. Just keep in mind that your originality will help you to mimic the success of another.

Focus on your qualities: People spend a lot of times in identifying what he does right than what he do wrong. We all commit blunders and mistakes. But why should we remind them? Always believe that I am the Man, who has his own abilities. I don’t see complications, I See opportunities.  We feel that, by being positive and always remembering the success helps enormously in overcoming the feeling of Jealousy. Just take negativity out of your brains and smell the freshness in the atmosphere. We don’t know much about an unknown person, but you are the one who knows everything about yourselves. Therefore, you are the ideal guy to pick your positivity and dump your negativities.

Network your jealousy into motivation: Before jealousy eats up your will, think about what can be done. Do not feel jealous for a long period because it will make you mad and irritation would be at its peak. Don’t waste your energy in anger or distrust. Allow the jealousy to lighten up your power and bring an even better well motivated person. Instead of letting jealousy destroy your passion, turn it around and make it a piece of gold. Networking your Jealousy into something that would benefit a person in the ideal way of getting rid of stress and emotional behavior.  

From The Editor’s Desk:

There are no two opinions about Jealousy. It is a kind of human emotion that takes time to control. Being a Blogger, we all have to learn this art. A CPU without a Monitor is just like a jealous Blogger who knows all but can’t work until he controls his emotions. Avoiding Emotions during Blogging take a lot of time, but it is possible. Does anyone feel jealousy as a blogger? How do you deal with it? Feel free to leave your comments. Take care, till then, Peace, Blessings and Happy Learning.

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About the Editorial Team

The Editorial Team of MyBloggerLab consists of a group of Professional Blogger geeks Led by Syed Faizan Ali (Founder of MyBloggerLab).